50 First Date Questions I asked MYSELF

In honor of Valentine's Day this week I am answering 50 first date questions for myself because the most important love you can have is that of self-love. Get to know a lil more about me ❤ 1. Who inspires you? Who do you aspire to be like? any female artist out there doing the … Continue reading 50 First Date Questions I asked MYSELF

an insight into my creative process & overcoming dread/procrastination

This last week and the start of this week I felt very...off. I felt very bogged down by the malaise of the winter and the routine of the everyday and was seriously feeling the need to escape. I was getting resentful at work because I was just feeling so over the work and just generally … Continue reading an insight into my creative process & overcoming dread/procrastination

February Intentions

Happy February 1st!  I kept seeing these memes all over insta about how loooong January felt and I completely agree. This winter stagnation makes me feel like I've lived at least a couple months in the span of one. I liked doing these monthly goals/intention setting posts last year because it was fun to check … Continue reading February Intentions

Why You’re Worth It – lessons on following your desires

What is stopping you from going after the things you want? As humans and especially as women, I think we deal with limiting beliefs surrounding  whether or not we are worthy of giving ourselves the things we want/desire. In my previous posts, I was talking about judging myself for the things that make me happy. … Continue reading Why You’re Worth It – lessons on following your desires

a lesson from the mermaid guides on joy

Lately, I've been noticing my need to constantly be filling my time with something. I rarely just do nothing and have a vast amount of guilt for "doing nothing". Every moment has to be spent doing something productive. I feel that if I'm not actively working on my goals then I start to feel like … Continue reading a lesson from the mermaid guides on joy

what is bringing you joy? – a list

I can't stop thinking about the concept of joy. pleasure. Since my last post on thinking about pleasure and privilege I want to write down an honest list about what brings me joy. I find myself judging myself for some of the things that bring me joy. As if I'm not allowed to like something … Continue reading what is bringing you joy? – a list

facing the cold – a weekend with my shadow self

I had an odd weekend. first of all, happy mlk day & women's march weekend. This weekend I encountered my shadow side and I write this all down in order to process, reflect, and hopefully let someone know that they're not alone by sharing my jumble of thoughts and feelings. I had a friend whom … Continue reading facing the cold – a weekend with my shadow self